All about Me

When people told me that I needed to have a blog on my website, I was very hesitant and not sure how it would go.  I am not a wordy writer, and would rather get right to the point, so my narratives are not long!

I think it was the election of 2008 when Obama connected with so many people through emails and other technical opportunities, that I thought I should listen to those who said “You have to have a blog!”

Another determining factor was when a friend said,” I can’t believe that you are not on Facebook!  Although I am pretty sure that I am one of the oldest members on Facebook, you can also find me there.  Most of my friends will never look for me in either place, but for those of you who found me – let’s do it!

It seems the older I get the younger I am acting.  My adult daughters often act older than I do, therefore I am bonding with my grandchildren.  They think blowing bubbles out of my sunroof is cool!  I think that one thing that helps us act and feel younger is to hang out with people with similar likes. 

Some of the things that I am trying to do at this time in my life are:

• Avoid drama!  It seems as though many people thrive on this and in my ageing process, it is something I would rather do without.  I do teach people how to deal with conflict, but I would truthfully rather avoid it.  To avoid drama, it may mean taking risks; changing relationships; being true to your core values; and really trying to not take things personally.
• Do things in moderation rather than excess!  Those who know me, will attest to the fact that I certainly know how to do things in excess.  Coming from a family where addictions were the norm, I now try to stay in the middle with : activities, friends, food, exercise, quiet time, work, play, rest, and even finances.  The middle of the road is just great for me now.
• Create balance!  I work for money, but I am also generous with my volunteer time; I laugh and I am not afraid to cry; I work and I play; I enjoy being with people (not large groups!) and value my alone time; I support other people and also gladly accept their support; and I live in Minnesota and balance that out with a trip to the warmer climate during the winter (Mexico!)