Birth Can Be Blissful

I recently worked with a couple who had one of the most fantastic births.  I want to share just some of the highlights with you.

I was contacted by them early in their pregnancy and at that time they outlined how they would like to have their birth happen.  They were determined that this would be a “natural” birth – and that did happen.

Throughout their pregnancy when we would talk, meet, email, etc.. she continued her focus on having a peaceful and wonderful birth.  Her husband was thoroughly connected to her and his wishes were quiet, but similar. 

The pregnancy was uneventful.  She was diagnosed with diabetes, but managed throughout the pregnancy with diet and exercise.  She saw a Chiropractor regularly who keep her body in line as the baby continued to grow and take up more space.  Her mood was even and she never once stated that she was done being pregnant and wanted this over.  Although they were anxious to meet their son, they mutually decided that he would determine when that time would be.

Beginning with her fourth month of pregnancy, she started listening to a hypnobirthing CD, and continued this practice throughout the pregnancy and throughout labor.  Even when her MP3 player got wet in the tub, she switched over the affirmations to a CD in the room, so we all could hear what she was using to get her through the labor.

Her labor consisted of walking, healing touch, massage, talking, laughing, sleeping, cuddling, resting, listening to her CD, eating, visiting with friends and her husband, talking to her son, drinking lots of water, using the birthing ball, taking a shower, and eventually getting into the water birth tub.  There was no pressure with time.  He would come when he was ready.

When someone is in labor, everyone looses a sense of time.  It happens…labor is just what it says….a lot of work.  I could see so many similarities to death.  No predicting how long it would be, surrounded by loved ones, letting nature take its course, and finally being greeted by loved ones on the other side.

As this little guy worked so hard and finally pushed his head through… what a relief!  Then the rest of his body came out and he was hugged immediately by his mom.  The three of them were there in the tub supporting and comforting each other.  Mom, dad, and their son.  Who cannot believe in miracles when you witness something like this?

It is such a privilege to be there when this happens.  I am anxious to go out and visit the three of them to see how everyone is adjusting.  I hope you can understand why this is one of my passions.